Erotic wisdom in old age

Abstract

The aim of this chapter is to articulate the concepts of wisdom and eroticism in order to consider the positive resources of the elderly in relation to sexuality throughout life. Knowing the ways in which the erotic pleasures are reconsidered at a vital stage where physical and cultural constraints can be found, may be of great value to both individual and social levels. Wisdom in eroticism seeks for the source of eroticism as a cognitive, reflective and emotional resource to treat its biological and cultural variables in sexuality. Therefore, alternative ways of obtaining pleasure can be found to strengthen personal integrity. In conclusion, the elderly, when facing certain changes that limit or prevent the sexual act, display the following three alternatives: - They multiply the areas available for enjoyment such as fantasizing, and finding ways of enjoying each other; - They increase the importance of amorous exchange in the couple; and - They find alternative ways to enjoy beauty. This chapter is based on theoretical sources and empirical evidence obtained through qualitative research.